It may seem like a problem to you, but that's because you're too focused on the human side of things. On the littleness of this world. On sweating the small stuff. In this article, I'm going to share with you a three-step process for letting this shit go, and getting these negative people out of your life, not because I think they're a real problem, but because I want you to stop causing yourself to suffer.

You're no victim here! You not getting along with someone, well, there's a good chance they don't like you either and you have played a part in this annoying ass relationship.

You ain't no victim! You are a co-creator of your life. If someone is in your life that is causing you suffering, you have allowed them into your life!

I'm here to help you overcome this suffering, because life is short! I don't want you spending your precious time on earth, in some stupidness, in littleness.

If the biggest problem you have is that you don't get along with someone, congratulations, you have no problems and you ARE the one percent!

We think that somebody else is the one percent! We think that Bill Gates or Tony Robbins or Oprah, or the president or celebrities or movie stars are the one percent. You are wrong. We, you and I, are the one percent in this world. Ninety nine percent of the rest of the world is living in poverty and scarcity, has no home, has no food, is in war. We are the one percent! You are the one percent and you do not have a problem.

A real problem is not having food, is not having a safe place to sleep at night, is not having a roof over your head, is being raped, is being assaulted, your life being threatened, your children's safety...those, are real problems.

The fact that you don't get along with someone, so and so didn't text you back, he unfriended you, this host doesn't want you on their podcast or whatever... is not a problem. Let's save problems for real things, for things that matter. Let's not call every goddamn little thing a problem . 

So that is the practical perspective that I wanted to share with you before I dove into the spiritual side of things.

Remember, everything I say is coming from a place of love. I'm not judging you. I don't judge anyone. I see ourselves as equal. I see you as me. I believe that we are one mind that has broken off into seven and a half billion little minds. So if I judge you, I'm judging myself. How I view you, is how I view myself so I would never judge you, so please know that what I'm saying here is not to coming from judgement.

It's a perspective shift that I have to share with you because it does get to me at times when people make little things, a BIG hairy deal when they’re really NOT. As someone who HAS gone through real life problems, at any stage of my younger life, I would've gladly exchanged my life with yours. 

When we view other people as negative, we are actually JUDGING them. We think, “they are not like me, they’re a pain in the ass, their life would be so much better if they weren’t like that, why can’t they just be like this, why can’t they just act like that, why do they do that” etc. etc.

When we suspend judgment, we stop seeing things and people as good or bad, and instead, simply, as it just IS. Sometimes, we project our own insecurities onto other people, thus creating MORE judgment, and judgment is a crappy energy. It is a low-level negative energy, so you feel as if this negativity is coming from THEM, but it is actually coming from YOU.

Even more, when we judge other people, we see them as separate from ourselves. Listen up, we may all look different, we may all have different skin colors, hair color, ethnicities and so on, but we are all EQUAL members of the SAME family. That may be hard to believe and accept, but it’s that belief that keeps us in judgment. We all came from the same place. We were all created from the same Source. Hell yes, we are all ONE! The sooner you start to see those people around you as your brothers and sisters, the sooner you will be free from your judgment and from the negative energy that you feel around them.

This is important because when you are in judgment of others, you put that energy out, and on a subconscious level, they feel it, become defensive, and then their guard is up around you. They start to act in a (seemingly negative) way towards you, as they are subconsciously trying to protect themselves from your judgment. Accept these people for who they are. This is who they are. Accepting them does not mean condoning their behavior, it means no longer punishing them and thinking negatively of them for who they are. Punishing others is not your job anyways. On a soul level, you feel bad for looking down on these people, for seeing them ONLY as the human beings they are, instead of the SPIRITUAL beings they truly are-the brother and sister they are to you on a soul level. When you accept them for who they are, you stop resisting what is, polluting the world with judgmental energy, punishing them, and seeing them as separate from you.